OCTOBER 30TH
7PM-11PM
DELICIOUS PLEASUREs
COCKTAILS, CANAPES & Curiosity
What if pleasure wasn’t something you waited for someone else to give you?
What if pleasure was your delicious, divine right?
Join us for an indulgent evening of cocktails, canapés, conversation and connection. An experience created for women who want to celebrate themselves, connect with like-minded women and explore what it means to live deliciously on their own terms.
All women* are welcome, partnered or single.
This is a night to step outside the idea that you need a partner to define your experience, your desirability or your pleasure.
Instead, come and explore pleasure in all its forms: beautiful food, delicious drinks, the way you dress for yourself, being seen and heard, asking for what you want, receiving generously and having conversations that leave you feeling expanded.
An experience that can change how you see the world.
Hosted by a private chef Nicki Merali, living deliciously coach Julia Bell and professional Dominatrix and sex witch Mistress Jayne, this is an immersive evening designed to invite you to get curious about your relationship with pleasure and with yourself.
*this evening is for those who identify as cis and trans women and AFAB.
Come Exactly As You Are
YOU DON'T NEED TO BE PARTNERED OR SINGLE.
You don't need to have everything figured out.
You don't need to identify as particularly confident, adventurous or "sex positive."
You simply need to be curious.
Curious about yourself.
Curious about pleasure.
Curious about what might happen when you give yourself permission to want more and to receive it.
Curious about what do you really want from life.
Come exactly as you are.
There is no partner required.
No performance required.
No version of yourself you need to become first.
Just you.
And an invitation to discover what becomes possible when you put yourself at the centre of your own experience.
This isn't just a fun girls night in.
It's about YOU having the courage to step into your feminine power and leadership and live a life that's vibrant, alive and uniquely yours.
By the end of this experience, you'll leave feeling:
More connected to yourself and to a community of women who are curious about living differently, taking up more space and consciously creating a life that feels aligned, expansive and entirely your own.
More confidence to ask for what you want, to naturally express yourself and be seen and to actively shape the life you want, on your terms.
More comfortable receiving support, appreciation, pleasure, compliments, generosity and whatever else feels delicious to you. No longer shrinking or apologising for wanting more.
More curious about what actually brings you pleasure, rather than what you've been told your allowed to have; seeing what becomes possible when you choose yourself more fully and being willing to consider what would a pleasure filled life look like?
More empowered to ask for what you want, communicate your desires, make yourself a priority and intentionally create a life that reflects who you are and what you truly desire.
And a little more permission to stop waiting for someone else to make your life feel fulfilled. Instead, stepping into the role of consciously creating it for yourself.
This Is For You
If….
Love the idea of dressing, showing up and expressing yourself for yourself and are ready to challenge some of the stories you've inherited about women, desire, pleasure and worth.
Are curious about the art of receiving without feeling you have to earn it or immediately give something back. Instead, becoming more comfortable asking for what you want and knowing you can have it.
Are ready to challenge some of the stories you've inherited about women, desire, pleasure and worth and are ready to step outside the idea that being partnered is the ultimate measure of a fulfilled life.
Want an evening that is playful, intimate and just a little bit provocative. Or perhaps you are craving meaningful conversation, laughter, delicious food and a little bit of indulgence.
What's Included
The evening has been thoughtfully curated to offer a ritualistic and deeply nourishing experience for your body, mind and soul.
We will gather in a beautiful private home in North London.
7pm-11pm
Your decadent experience includes:
Food
A selection of beautifully prepared canapés created and served by our private chef, Niki all curated for sensuality and exploration of pleasure.
Drinks
Cocktails and refreshments designed to complement the evening and make the experience feel properly indulgent. Non alcoholic options as well.
The Experience
An immersive evening of conversation, connection, mini masterclasses, playful exploration and delicious permission to put yourself at the centre of your experience.
Your Goodie Bag
A little something to continue the experience after you leave; because pleasure doesn't have to end when the evening does.
A Little Adoration
Mistress Jayne will also be allowing a few carefully selected male valets into the evening.
Their role? To practise the art of asking for what you want… and getting it.
It's an opportunity to experience receiving attention, appreciation and adoration without having to earn it, perform for it or give anything back.
To simply receive.
WHAT YOU WILL RECEIVE
this and so much more…
✨ A beautifully hosted Cocktails & Canapés girls' night in
✨ Delicious food created by our private chef
✨ Beautiful cocktails and drinks
✨ Mini masterclasses from our expert hosts in creating your own sensual food experience, living deliciously and being in your feminine magnetism.
✨ Meaningful conversation with a room full of like-minded women
✨ Invitations to explore your relationship with pleasure
✨A playful exploration of dressing and expressing yourself for yourself
✨ Opportunities to practise asking, receiving and taking up more space
✨ An evening of connection, curiosity, celebration and indulgence
✨ A carefully curated goodie bag to take home
YOUR GUIDES
You evening will be held by a professional Dominatrix and Sex Witch, whose work explores sovereignty, sacred power, energetic boundaries, a private chef who brings ritual and the sacredness of food as pleasure and nourishment and a coach who wants all women to live the most epic life; regardless of their relationship status.
This powerhouse trio will talk you on an playful and intimate adventure of inner power, sacred sensuality and self love.
The Domme and Sex Witch
Mistress Jayne (aka MJ) is a Professional Dominatrix and Sex Witch who brings together the worlds of sacred sexuality and conscious kink to provide spaces for healing sexual shame, reclaiming our power and coming together in sacred union.
It is her mission to guide women as they return to their inner truth, wisdom and sovereignty; restoring feminine leadership and reshaping the ways in which we live and relate to each other.
It is her belief that when women/femmes initiate themselves into the feminine mysteries and stand in their inner power, they will call everyone home to respect, kindness and love. Here is where we can build towards sacred union with ourselves, others and the Earth
THE CHEF
Niki Merali is the founder of PikNiktable; a private dining and supper club experience born from a simple belief that food is one of the most honest ways we can care for each other and for ourselves.
Her cooking draws on two decades spent between Highgate, London and Varkala, Kerala, shaped by home cooks who taught her that a meal is never just a meal, it’s an offering.
The kitchen has become her form of self-expression and the table her way of holding space.
Once a month, she opens her Highgate home for intimate suppers. Think long tables, shared plates, seasonal food and the kind of evening that feels less like an event and more like coming home to yourself. It’s cooking as ritual, as generosity, as a quiet act of self-love; for her, and for everyone who sits down.
The Coach
Julia Bell is a women’s coach and the woman behind Living Deliciously, a space for honest conversations about relationships, pleasure, self-trust and what becomes possible when a woman truly chooses herself.
Julia knows how easily women can lose themselves in the pursuit of being wanted, chosen or loved. How often we make ourselves smaller, silence what we really want or accept less than we deserve.
Through warm, bold and deeply honest coaching and conversations, she helps women come back to themselves, trust what they want and stop accepting crumbs where they deserve a feast.
Her work is an invitation to want more. To take up space. To choose pleasure and to build a life that feels rich, delicious and fully yours.
CLAIM MORE FOR YOURSELF
WHAT TO BRING
Just your most naturally fabulous self.
We invite you to turn this into a ritual date night for yourself. Slow down, dress up for yourself. Honour who you are in how you turn up.
We'll take care of the rest.
WHEN AND WHERE
DATE: Friday October 30th, 2026
TIMINGS: 7pm-11pm
WHERE: Private home in Highgate, North London (full address provided to ticket holders)
Come as you are.
Leave with permission to take up space, ask for more, receive more and create a life that feels deliciously yours.
This is more than a girls' night in.
It's an invitation to expand your capacity for pleasure.
WHAT YOU'LL EXPERIENCE
✨ A beautifully hosted Cocktails & Canapés girls' night in and opportunity to say ‘I’m worth it'… and mean it!
✨ Delicious food created by our private chef to explore the many types of pleasure
✨ Beautiful cocktails and drinks
✨ Mini masterclasses from our expert hosts in creating your own sensual food experience, living deliciously and being in your feminine magnetism.
✨ Meaningful conversation with a room full of like-minded women; reminding you you're epic just as you are!
✨ Invitations to explore your relationship with pleasure (outside of the bedroom)
✨A playful exploration of dressing and expressing yourself for yourself
✨ Real time opportunities to practise asking, receiving and taking up more space… a skill to transform your life outside of this space
✨ A stronger connection to your magnificence of being a women*
✨ An evening of connection, curiosity, celebration and indulgence
✨ A carefully curated goodie bag to take home
INVESTMENT
IN CELEBRATION OF THE LAUNCH OF THIS COLLABORATION AND OUR GIFT TO YOU WILL RECEIVE OVER £200 OF DELICIOUS VALUE FOR
£99
FAQ
What is Cocktails & Canapés?
Cocktails & Canapés is an immersive girls’ night in celebrating women, connection, self-expression and pleasure in all its forms.
Expect delicious food and drinks, meaningful conversation, mini masterclasses from our hosts, playful exploration and opportunities to connect with like-minded women in a beautiful, welcoming environment.
Who is this event for?
This event is for women (cis, afab, trans) who are curious about pleasure, connection, self-expression and creating a life that feels more expansive and delicious on their own terms.
You might be single, partnered, dating, married, divorced or happily enjoying your own company; your relationship status is not the point.
Do I need to come with someone?
Absolutely not. You are very welcome to come alone.
In fact, coming solo can be a wonderful opportunity to meet new women and step outside your usual circles. The evening is designed to feel warm, social and welcoming, so you can connect with others naturally.
Of course, you're also welcome to bring a friend.
Is this a dating event?
No. This isn't a dating event.
This is about celebrating yourself, connecting with other women and exploring pleasure beyond the idea that it has be sexual or to come through a romantic partner.
What kind of food and drinks will be served?
You'll enjoy a selection of delicious, beautifully prepared canapés created by our private chef, alongside cocktails and refreshments.
Further menu details and dietary information will be shared with guests ahead of the event where applicable.
Can you cater for dietary requirements?
Please let us know about any dietary requirements or allergies when booking, and we'll do our best to accommodate them where possible.
What are the mini masterclasses?
Throughout the evening, our hosts will lead short, playful and thought-provoking mini masterclasses based on their individual areas of expertise.
These will be interactive invitations rather than long formal presentations.
What will Mistress Jayne's male valets be doing?
Mistress Jayne will have a small number of carefully selected male valets present as part of the experience.
They will offer opportunities for guests to explore the experience of receiving attention, appreciation and adoration; simply because you are you.
The intention is to playfully challenge the idea that women always need to perform, give or earn in order to receive.
You are always in control of your participation and are welcome to engage only in the ways that feel comfortable and enjoyable for you.
Do I have to interact with the male valets?
No. Participation is always your choice.
Will there be anything sexual?
No. There will be no sexual play.
What should I wear?
Wear whatever makes you feel good.
This is a wonderful opportunity to dress for yourself rather than for anyone else's approval. Whether that means jeans, silk, something glamorous, something bold or your most comfortable favourite outfit; the choice is yours.
The only dress code is: wear what makes you feel EPIC!
Is there a dress code?
There is no strict dress code.
This is a space to explore how you dress and express yourself for you.
What if I'm shy or nervous about coming alone?
That's completely okay and you're probably not the only one.
The experience is designed to create opportunities for connection without forcing you to perform or be anything other than yourself.
What if I don't feel confident?
Then this event may be especially for you.
You don't need to arrive feeling confident in order to explore confidence. There is no expectation that you have everything figured out or that you already know exactly what you want.
Curiosity is enough.
Will I have to participate in everything?
No.
While we encourage curiosity and openness, you are always in charge of your own experience. You can participate as much or as little as feels right for you.
Is this a safer space?
We are committed to creating a welcoming, respectful and consent-led environment where guests can explore, connect and express themselves.
Everyone attending is expected to respect boundaries, confidentiality and one another's experiences.
Can I take photos?
We want everyone to feel able to relax and be present.
Please be respectful when taking photos and always ask permission before photographing or filming another guest. Further photography guidelines may be shared at the event.
Will I receive anything to take home?
Yes! Every guest will receive a carefully curated goodie bag with a little something to continue the delicious experience after the evening is over.
What do I need to bring?
Just yourself, your curiosity and a willingness to enjoy the experience.
Everything else is waiting for you.
Do I need any previous knowledge or experience?
Not at all.
There is nothing you need to know before you arrive. This evening is designed for women who are simply curious and open to exploring new perspectives and experiences.
Can I come if I don't drink alcohol?
Of course. Alcohol-free drink options will be available.
Is this event confidential?
We encourage guests to treat personal stories and experiences shared during the evening with care and respect.